Sharon Sayler

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Jerry Seinfeld once shared, “At a funeral, most people would rather be in the casket than giving the eulogy.” Too true! That’s fear, yet most people say things like, “Oh, I’m not a good public speaker,” or “I wouldn’t know what to say…”. That’s FEAR talking…. I’ve had clients that know certain suggestions I make […]

I always love being on Laurie Lawson’s Show The Coaching Game, tonight we shared not only my work with body language we got to share about Pinky Chenille and the Rainbow Hunters. Here’s Laurie’s description of the show: World-renown body language expert Sharon Sayler has created an entire colorful family to coach children ages 3 […]

Hello Sharon, I want to thank you again for speaking to our group on Thursday night. I enjoyed hearing your insights and am fascinated by this topic. I wish I had thought to ask you this question as I’m hoping you have an opportunity to help me with this…. I’ve experienced this recently: I’m in a meeting […]

Often I get questions that I find are relevant to many of my community, like this one…. Dear Sharon, “How do I ask (and get) a raise and promotion?” Great question! I actually hear this often with my clients, we often practice this conversation just to be ready. The five ‘winning preps’ I share below […]

I shared in my last post that my #1 rule for dealing with difficult people is DON’T TAKE IT PERSONALLY. And almost immediately, I heard real life war stories from many of you wonderful readers about your own struggles with difficult people.  It is a touchy and subjective topic for sure. In my experience, there […]

Have you ever heard that old saying “Facts tell and stories sell?”  Facts tell and stories sell is a saying I learned in sales class years ago and it’s true as far as it goes. If you sell with stories, all stories you tell have to be relevant, not only for the audience but in context […]

I had the pleasure of joining the host of the Healthy U podcast Alan Eisenberg to chat about how body language affects our well-being and how to use courageous, conscious communication to help yourself and others. Listen in on iTunes. [Audio clip: view full post to listen] INTERVIEW HIGHLIGHTS: Here’s Alan’s introduction of me for our […]

I wish I’d known this great tip when I was much younger. It would have saved much heartache and headache. For years, I would get obsessed when things went wrong and fret over “What did I do wrong?” I would ruminate and ruminate… sometimes I would uncover something I did or said and sometimes not. […]

I recently attended a sales conference and two of the presenters re-stated this misleading “fact.” I think it important to understand we are more than stats when we choose to communicate. So, here is my rant on the often misquoted stat that 93% of all communication is nonverbal…. Nonverbal Communication is an important part of […]

How to Use Body Language to Negotiate your Success interveiw for the Evolutionary Business Council