Okay, some quick thoughts on what to do if you want to do more than watch…. Frankly, let your eyes do the talkin’. Poets say the eyes are the window to the soul. They are and they also go right to a guy’s “fascination” button. How much fascination you get depends on how long you “watch” the guy. Staring is stalking so I suggest the 3 Flash Method. Okay, get your mind outta’ there…this is a different type of flashing.