Sharon Sayler

Members: Audio Interviews 11-15

Stop Talking on Eggshells with Susie & Otto Collins and Sharon Sayler

Susie and Otto's communication secret is "Be totally transparent." Speak your truth yet in a loving way that allows the other person to want to share with you. Often times we get bound up in fear, it takes courage to step out and start new ways of communicating.

It all starts with you; be willing to be the first to own up to whatever "games" you might have been playing.  A very common game is the "Gotcha game" where you both "know" you are right and work towards proving you are right and the other person is wrong. As Susie said, "Go on the no-blame diet."

Otto quoted "Everything you do and say is going to move you closer to or further away from what you want." It all starts with your intentions.

Choose language that is specific and you oriented – not the other oriented. Stop the drama. Use language such as "I'm wondering if…" or "Are you open to…" instead of "You did…" or "You should…."

Bio: Susie and Otto Collins are married partners, authors, speakers and Breakthrough Relationship Coaches–specializing in helping people create conscious, connected, passionate relationships. They are authors of "Stop Talking on Eggshells," "Magic Relationship Words" "Sho…uld You Stay or Should You Go?" "No More Jealousy," "How to Heal Your Broken Heart," "Relationship Trust Turnaround," and "Red Hot Love Relationships."

Michael Grinder – the Group Dynamics Wizard!

Ever been stuck in a dysfunctional group?? Nothing can be more frustrating and wanting to pull your hair out! Save your hair and sanity.

In this fun and lighthearted interview, the host of Beyond Lip Service, Sharon Sayler, interviews Michael Grinder, author of Managing Groups-The Fast Track. Michael a leading expert in Group Dynamics understands the fundamental shifts that are needed to turn any group from dysfunctional to functional… from good to great.

Drawing on his 40 years of studying groups on four continents, Michael's latest book and research is game-changing. If you ever need to lead a group, team or just a simple meeting, get the inside scoop for the guy who wrote the step-by-step system on how to build and sustain successful, thriving groups! Join Sharon and Michael for this fascinating and inspiring exploration of the good, the bad and the ugly life of groups! Take yours from good to great!

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Mob or MasterMind with Thomas Magnum and Sharon Sayler

Listen in to our great interview to learn more about the
5 Most Important Reasons to Be In A Mastermind Now: "If you're not in one, you're missing out on….."

  1. Connections
  2. Being heard – Peer group that really "gets you"
  3. Access to resources – money, people, time
  4. Accountability
  5. It multiplies your time & adds velocity to your results.

On doing it right….or wrong…
The good and bad of Leverage….
You already know that masterminding will accelerate results.  Did you also know that if not done correctly, it impedes your results?  That precious time you invest turns into wasted time, maybe even resented time. You move from some of the most valuable, leveraged time to a distraction.  There is a better way.

“Copenology -The New Science of Success" with Dr. Clint Pearman and Sharon Sayler

Dr Clint's communication secret is "Get in the same circle with the person you are talking with."  Ever heard the term, walk in their shoes? That's what Dr Clint means…. learn to be flexible in the way you communicate.

Dr Clint shared with us today the first four steps in his 8 step Mental Toughness Paradigm

  • First, create a clear vision of what you are trying to accomplish.
  • Second, make a decision.
  • Third, engineer and develop the belief that will accomplish your goals.
  • Fourth, develop the commitment – know you are not going to quit.

Dr. Pearman's book The Gift is available on and Barnes and He served more than 31 years in the world’s premier leadership and mental toughness training and development organization — the United States Marine Corps. While in the Marines, he developed the Mental Toughness Paradigm – applying cutting edge brain science research to teach people how to get their minds and brains to help them accomplish extraordinary things.

How to Love the Body You Have as You Create the Body You Want with Elizabeth "Lily" Hills and Sharon Sayler

Author of The Body Love Manual – How to love the body you have as you create the body you want, Elizabeth “Lily” Hills is a life coach, self-empowerment workshop leader, motivational / inspirational speaker.

She is the Co-host of the radio show: The Goddess to Goddess Empower Hour, Inspirational Information for Women and the Divine Dudes that Love Them. Having battled a hugely compulsive relationship with food for well over a decade of her life, she is passionate about educating women on the fact that accepting, appreciating and honoring their bodies is the most direct path to achieving their healthiest and most ideal weight. She wrote “The Body Love Manual” so that others don’t have to endure any more of the hardship that comes with being ashamed of your body and overly preoccupied with food.